|What is Sexy? (standard:other, 921 words)|
|Author: Lori||Added: May 09 2004||Views/Reads: 2052/0||Story vote: 0.00 (0 votes)|
|Re-worked it to see if it would flow better. Thanks Peter for reading it in the first place. Feedback is always welcome, let me know what you think.|
What is Sexy? By: cowgirl_11 What is SEXY? I find myself asking this question a lot lately. Today, I hope to get some answers as I sit here listening to music. Listening to different singers describe love, sexiness, things that makes up a song, make up life. One dictionary defines it: arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. That doesn't help me out for crap! I don't want the meaning of the word; I want the feel of it. I think about what I find sexy. A bald man's head is sexy. I want to go over and rub his head; I wouldn't do it even if I knew him. I've never known why, but they're sexy to look at. It goes back to when I saw Mr. Clean for the first time. A gentle caress can be sexy, if done right. When you put your love behind the touching, it's the greatest. A rough touch can do the same, if that's what you like. To me, the gentle touch means he must love me. Its not lust driving him to do it, emotions of being with me are. A gentle kiss will do the same thing. He wants to think I'm fragile and will break if treated harshly. Anyone will tell you this is the complete opposite of me. I'm a very strong woman; life has made me that way. I don't want to be smothered with love. But, every once and a while, I need to see the softer side of life. Seeing the love shining in his eyes is sexy. Because of all the women in the world, those eyes are shining for me. To be that to someone is the greatest gift. Knowing my partner enjoys me is sexy. It's the thought of him being able to have any woman in the world, but I'm the one he wants to please and be pleased by, that's sexy!! Not in a sexual sense, it's sexy if he makes me coffee, brings it to bed with him. It shows that he cares, that's the sexy part. Most people consider what someone has sexually sexy. I don't know about a lot of women, but guys, big boobs aren't always fun! They can be annoying and get in the way. Plus, they just lie there they can't do tricks. Well, not unless a woman trains them, I'm not into that. Butts are known to be sexy; I admit a nice butt on a man is nice. Is it really sexy? I guess in a way it is, it shows that he has a gift, if you want to call it that. It's not something he has to have for me to think he's sexy. Bodies are big when dealing with being sexy, aren't they? Who sees a big person walking down the street and say “Hey that's sexy!”? With big people you have to get to know them first to see what's sexy. Everyone thinks you've got to have a size 10 to be sexy, I don't think that way. God couldn't grant us all beauty; he had to give it to “special” people. You know the ones, the ones that are too dumb to know what 2x2 is. The Greek Gods/Goddesses of the world that don't know how to boil water. Yeah, those people had to be beautiful. I'm not saying that all beautiful people are stupid; don't send me emails about that. The ones that have to rely on their looks to get something out of life, are the ones I'm speaking of. Who really cares what a person looks like? I mean they are nice to look at. But most of the ones I've known are swallow, conceited, and think they know it all. They think that we owe them something just because they have a beautiful body. I'm not the most beautiful woman in the world, but I think it's sexy that I know what I want. I know how to please a man, how to make him think that he is a Greek God. I know how to love him like he needs to be loved, how to take care of him. I know how to make him smile, laugh, how to make him feel special. I know how to make him feel like a Man. Does that make me less sexy because you have to get to know me first? Does it make me any less sexy because I'm not a size 2? Does it make me any less sexy because I'm not a size 16? I've dated a hunk before it wasn't fun! You turn into someone that isn't you. I was worried about someone else getting my man; worried someone would find him attractive. I'm insecure enough thank you! I'm not a jealous person; I'm comfortable with who and what I am. It was that he was soooooo fine that I couldn't get over the fact others were going to find him that way too. Plus, let me see how to put this nicely, he wasn't that good in the bedroom department. I think he took one too many steroids. What are your views on it? Do you find the inner beauty better? Or do you base it on looks? Why is it, in the world we live in, people want to base a relationship on how someone looks? Instead of the way they treat us? What draws you to a person? What makes them stand out? What makes someone SEXY? Tweet
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